What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 28.06.2025 09:18
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
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28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
Can you share a picture of your favorite outfit and explain why you love it?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
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Have you ever? Care to Share?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
What sexual experience did you have at a highway rest area?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
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29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
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20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
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38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
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44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
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3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
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35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
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17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
*** Random Questions ***
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
39~ What are your love languages?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
Nothing too Serious
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
29- How superstitious are you?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
What is your favorite position? Why?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
Any that are a turn off?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
How old are you? Male or Female?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
If you win, what will you make them do?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
Would you read them together?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
62~ Have you used adult toys?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
Please share Did you stop?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
*** Questions About Me ***
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
The Ice Breaker Questions
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
52~ What are your hobbies?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
If yes, what?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Any that are a turn off?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
Do you think this brought you closer together?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
Family Relation Age Play
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?